Who's the father of my unborn child?

[kate_888]

Alright, I'm new to this website but I need some opinions from anyone who feels like commenting. I recently found out that I am pregnant, I find out in two days how far along I am.. but here's the catch, my last period was Feb 1st-6th, 2012. I have sex with my boyfriend every single day, unprotected, sometimes more than once. I had sex ONE time with my ex-boyfriend on Feb 11, 2012, unprotected. I missed my period that was supposed to come on Mar 1st, 2012. I have good cycles almost exactly 28 days. I'm scared that maybe it's his?! Everyone makes mistakes but I really hope the baby is my boyfriends. So I'm wondering if anyone has opinions on the chances of the baby being my ex-boyfriends baby?? HELP, please :/ I could really use some good opinions!

[Mommy2b8889]

I had my period on January 21,2016 I had sex with my ex on January 29 and 30 I had sex with my current boyfriend on January 31 I went to the doctor on March 17,2016 and was told I was 8 weeks and 4 days which puts me ovulating on the 30th who is the father

[joy1018]

Thanks annie. But i think and praying that it is the second guy. I feel so lost now and dont know how to tell him. I love him dearly and he knows that i am pregnant with him. I dont want to make his world turn up side down. He will surely hate me. And i hate myself now for allowing this things to happen. I feel like im the most stupid person in the world. :(

[AnnieBrooke]

The odds are that it is the second guy.   But there is no guarantee, since these were so close together.  All you can do is take a DNA test.  You can spend around $1,700 - 2,000 to get a prenatal test from Ravgen or the DDC, or you can spend about a tenth of that and get a test after the baby is born.  Sorry but there is no other way to know for sure.

[joy1018]

Hi annie, can you share with me your thoughts as i am really worried now and scared. My pt result is positive and im totally confused. As i have mentioned that we did not have a contact after he ejaculated and the guy pulled out with condom on when he ejaculated. Is it still possible that he will be the father of my baby? I honestly doesnt want him to be the babys father as i love the other guy more than him. Please let mebknow what u think?

[AnnieBrooke]

To know for sure that you did ovulate on February 29, your periods would have to be absolutely like clockwork every 28 or 29 days with never any variation.  If sometimes the cycle is longer than that (or shorter), there is no certain information to be gained from counting forward from the first day of a period.  Also, though using protection is helpful, it's not guaranteed either.  Condoms without foam are considered to be about 80% effective because of user variation in method of use.  (Putting them on before the guy has an erection is supposed to be the best way.)  If any pre-ejaculate had sperm in it, or if there was contact after ejaculation, you could get pregnant by the partner who used protection.  (Sperm can last 5 or 6 days in your system.)  In short, if you are pregnant, nothing absolutely rules out the guy on the 25th.  Because the sex with the earlier guy was protected, it makes the odds for the second guy better, but you'd have to do a DNA test in the end to be sure.

[joy1018]

Hi annie.thanks for your answer. But no, we didnt have a contact after ejaculation and i washed right away. Actually, he carefully changed the condom before he ejaculate coz there was precum there, wiped his penis and then put a new one. He pulled out before he ejaculated and checked if it broke, but there was no any leak. And yes my cycle is normally 28 to 29 days. Can i still be pregnant with the guy on feb 25?

[joy1018]

Please help me, my lmp was february 15 lasted 6 days, had protected sex with boyfriend no.2 on february 25, then had unprotected sex with boyfriend no.1, ejaculated inside on february 29 (which shows my ovulation day as per my calendar. Missed my period this month which supposed to come on 15th march. I believe im pregnant and not sure who the father may be.please give me your thoughts.