why do the ones you love or the ones who hurt yu ost.

[mandysue987]

I am being used I have been verbally talked at. MY niece was always we got along so  good. she turned into a money hungry thief. I was after she moved in and took over  she took me to my doctor I could not evn talk he said cant you smile and I broke down and started crying so he gave me depression med Effexor and anxiety lorazapam. I just  got caught in a web and I cant get out.

[mandysue987]

I want them to love each other, When her sis got divorced and remarried she wanted the the life she had he was special then she had 2 boys guess she wanted boys all she did was got mad and stayed that way, she had 3 daughters very cute

[mandysue987]

why do people hate the people the are supposed to love? jealous I was married 24 years when my hubby died. I graduated from high school  and got married I had a wonderful life. Could she be jealous?

[mandysue987]

why do people hate the people the are supposed to love? jealous I was married 24 years when my hubby died. I graduated from high school  and got married I had a wonderful life. Could she be jealous?

[Paxiled]

You're obsessing over things you cannot control -- you cannot control other people. You can help them the best if you help yourself first -- a healthy you will be a better help for them, too.  As for everything else you're saying here, again, nobody here knows you or the people you're talking about, so anything we would say would be just a wild guess.

[Paxiled]

Not sure what your question is.  Remember, we only have your side of things here so we can't know what's going on.  We can only help by offering you our experiences but we can't change your family situation, that's up to you to do.  I would think therapy is a very important thing for you, not sure about the medication, but you really sound like you need a professional who can help you make sense of why you feel so helpless.  

[mandysue987]

paxiled

[mandysue987]

I think  she  jeaslous her mom did not seem to care for her, her older daughter is the one they should have been watching.what do you think

[mandysue987]

I still have the same doctor an the same niece  I cant do anything without her tell me if t is ok, I am the older I should be telling her. she told me I could not love her sister because she did not. I told her I loved her and her 4 kids and that cold not be changed she did not talk to me for a couple of days, I still cant talk to her about her I wish they would get close I love them both. She is bipolar manic depressive, I am in depression with anxiety, guess we are not a good mix to live together, I would love to live alone again and get one of those neck things when I fall