Boy, the site is nutty again today -- I answered this, but again it didn't show, and it might show twice, but here goes. Nobody can tell you what anitdepressant will help you or what side effects it will have, as individuals don't react the same way to medication. We can't even tell you if you need a pill at all -- therapy might have been a better first choice for you, but you might have already tried that. I can only tell you that some people are helped with sexual problems from a drug that is otherwise helping them by adding wellbutrin to it, but then you're taking two drugs. Good luck.