deressed,alone

[hinaali]

Hi, my problem is that i am always alone. my hubby is always out of country and i don't have friends. I just have to lookafter my children. cooking for them ,taking them to school, help them in their study. Then where is me/ what about my life? whenever i ask to my hubby(when he is  at home) to go somewhere like cenima or somewhere else. he never goes with me. i am really depressed. what should i do?

[Draga53]

Hello:
I have fought depression 17 years because of a divorce and a bad childhood. The only reason I havnt commited suicide is because
God has always brought me thru at the time of my thoughts. Loneliness is a killer,pain from feeling alone even if I am with hundreds of people.
People,  dont forget about hugs ,there is mental therapy in being hugged or giving them,dont ever be embarrassed,
They say,be a man doesnt show feelings,how can one do that ? I am not a wimp or ever ran from  things,however I do feel hurt like everyone else.
Reach out to others asking nothing for u  r  self is when u r healing is taking place. Dont give up keep reaching out ,one day you too will find happiness . If everything fails ask Jesus for help! He is the only reason I am still alive
God really does love you !!!!!!!!!
Ken

[NoHopeOrLove]

this sounds so familiar just please dont cheat on your hubby... i got cheated on by my girlfriend its hurts soooo much i have to be doing something 24/7 so i dont stop and think about it or else i'll cry... i feel like its my fault my girlfriend cheated on me even though i know its not because i feel like i might've not given her enough attention... dont cheat on him go talk to him have a nice long conversation talk about how u feel guys dont like to listen to girls feelings but do it in a way he would listen make it fun try dinner or in bed before going to sleep.... idk im just trying to help... good luck though

[hope_for_more]

I don't know how old your children are or what is customary in your country but when my children were small I invited other mothers with small children to join a "play group".   The children would play and the mothers would talk and drink coffee usually at the home of one of the mothers.   Each week we would rotate hosting the group.  It helped me alot.

It also has helped by trying to find my own interests and trying to pursue them even if they are small.