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3252948 tn?1359923842

my family

my family are getting me down telling me what to do I am 25 and living with my perants I am unemployed I know I cam make my own mind up plus when I tell my perants I want to move out my dad gets angry and tells me I am not moving out
what should I do
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3149845 tn?1506627771
You should move out as you are at the age to be on your own but if you dont have a job try to get one and make the best of your stay at home for now. Just keep the move to yourself for now.
dave
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480448 tn?1426948538
Well, you are 25.  I think it's time for you to set some goals for yourself.  Get a job, save some money, and then get a place of your own.  Unfortunately, regardless of how old you are, if you're living under someone else's roof, you must abide by their rules.

Why aren't you working?  Are you in school?  Also, your Dad can get as mad as he wants, but when the time comes, and you're ready and able to move out, he can't stop you, as you're an adult.
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2996663 tn?1374169076
Maybe your dad would feel better about you moving out if you had a job  that pays well, so he knew you werent going to be without anything!  Well of course before you can get your own house, your going to need a job to pay for everything, and since you dont yet have one he may be worried about you moving out and ending up in a bad situation!
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2996663 tn?1374169076
Find yourself a nice job, then talk to him about moving out and see if he changes the way he feels about it!
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3252948 tn?1359923842
i feel stressed out i cant sleep for two nights i feel drained
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480448 tn?1426948538
Sorry you still feel lousy.  Many of us asked you some questions, in order to try to help you better.

What are you doing to look for a job?  Better yourself?  Have you sought professional help for how you're feeling?
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I agree with all the advice you have been given above but the most important is getting that job,you will feel so much better because I think at the moment you are stepping on eachothers toes.
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3252948 tn?1359923842
there is no work out there in ireland where i am from i am doin a course with the international career institute i am studing zoology which is goin well
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480448 tn?1426948538
Well, that's great that you're educating yourself!  

As far as jobs go, I'm sure there is SOMETHING, even if it is part time.  I would encourage you to keep looking.
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3252948 tn?1359923842
i am gonna keep looking never say never goodmorning i feel great today lets the day begin lol :-)
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