It's good that you are so vigilant with your daughter. It's hard for them to grasp the concept of death at this age. When I lost my son, his six year old son came up to me at the funeral home and told me I had to be quiet because his daddy was sleeping. It's heart wrenching for everyone, but as adults we can make some sense of it. Children aren't sure exactly what's happened. The two of you will get through this together. I do wish you both all the best.
thank you so much for caring...so sorry for your losses also....you know how hard it is to go through grief...and I think I am finally coming out of shock and feeling very lonely...cry quite a lot and care for my daughter the best I can....God bless her, she is doing much better than I am...however, I get concerned because she doesn't seem to be grieving for him and they were very close...i talked to her school (she is in kindergarten) if there are any red lights going up anywhere.
I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you are doing everything you can for now, I think the therapy and addition of Abilify will help with time. But I know you need and want help now. Have you truly mourned the loss of your husband? Try to let your daughter be your driving force, think of her loss and how much she truly needs you now. Try to do things that relax you, things that occupy your mind. Journal your thoughts and feelings, it's very therapeutic, like a form of releasing those feelings. You're enduring so much and I'm sure you're over-whelmed by it all, and it's taking it's toll on you. I lost a son and grandson, I know your grief. Keeping your mind and body occupied is the best thing you can do right now. Cry, feel the anger, whatever it is, let it out. Always make sure you are breathing deeply, in thru your nose and slowly out of your mouth. Play games with your daughter, anything to buiild some normalcy into both your lives. I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, all I can do is empathize. I am always here if you ever want to talk or just vent.....okay? Big hugs to you, it will be okay. Take care.