I had unprotected sex with a girl one night, and she has been tested for stds. 12 hours later, the next day i noticed red bumps/rash under my pubic hair, anf also on my penis and head. they have started to go away, its been 3 days, but there are still 2 bumps on the head that appear to be healing. I notice when i go pee, it feels like it continues to drip out a tiny bit when i have my pants on. Also on this third day I feel really achy and i have a cough. I read you cant get herpes that fast after sex (12 hours) so I am wondering what it is because I heard you can get flu symptons on your first outbreak. Please help! thanks