I have a condition that I have dealt with since approx 20 years old. My penis develops an irritation when used. In intercourse this does not usually happen (condom, couple of times per week), but in masturbatory use it is prevalent. The part just below the head of the penis becomes inflamed and red for weeks, and itches for 12-18 hours after masturbation. I typically use off the shelf lotion, and some types seem to burn if already inflamed. It takes up to a month to completely heal if inflamed. If I masturbate during the time it is inflamed then it aggravates it and continues to plague me.
It began about 8 years ago during a masturbatory session with a girlfriend using aloe lotion with lido cane. We had used that lotion many times before, however this time I became irritated. The problem has been relatively constant since then. I have used many kinds of antibiotic and antifungal topical creams, some prescriptions. None have seemed to make any difference at all.
I have had approx 6 doctors look at me over the years and have no conclusions. I have intentionally inflamed the area prior to exam, had biopsys, etc to no avail. I can sent a picture if necessary. I just want to have this gone.