You have a very, very serious problem. The dilated pupil is the least of them. You have traumatic glaucoma, traumatic iritis and you are at high risk for a retinal detachment (RD) and traumatic cataract. There are some good reasons that many ophthalmologists would feel you absolutely should not be on pilocarpine. (hopefully you aren't) as it increases the risk of RD and makes traumatic iritis worse. You can look up the contra-indications. My suggestions would be to see a Eye MD specialzing in retina/vitreous for special tests of your eye to be sure there are no difficult to see retinal tears/detachments. Ask the retina MD about pilocarpine, I don't think they will feel you should be on it. Also if you have access to a Eye MD that specializes in glaucoma I would see one as soon as possible. You need a test called gonioscopy, and will need ongoing management of the pressure in your eye. I am concerned about your eye and you should be also. I think your problem is too complex for a general ophthalmologist and needs a retina and glaucoma subspecialist