To Tina 1111 ( and if anyone else wants to give an opinion I would appreciate it)

[Dixychick]

hi tina-

have been watching you post.... i think this is your month so I can't wait to see you post your BFP!!!

Well, I ofcourse come to you because I am so crazy right now.  You know the story apparently ovulated on June 1 - BD'd the afternoon before-- spotted from the 1st DPO until two days ago... stopped and then noticed today brownish- light pink spotting-- would make me 9DPO and I ofcourse took a HPT and BFN.  I thought maybe I had messed up my ovulation day and two days ago took a OPK and the line was almost as dark but def. not the same color.  So... what do you think?  Should I just give up and figure this month is a bust or what?  I need any advice you can give. I had some weird feelings(tingling) in the middle of my stomach a few nights ago and actually right now in the middle below my belly button... and a little tingling last night and then the day before I had like a flashing cramp on the right side?  I don't have any sypmtoms at all. Nothing...except for being really tired but nothing else like everyone else has... So.... as always thanks in advance for the help.

[tina1111]

At 9dpo spotting could be implantation. Even if implanted on 8dpo the spotting could show the day after. The OPK is an odd tool after o. It can tease you and it can mean absolutely nothing, lol. If you were pg, it could be showing hcg instead of Lh. If not pg, it can be showing the normal random Lh we get throughout our cycles. I have gotten a full pos OPK after o, knew for sure I o'd, thought it meant pg, but it was just a surge. You are far from out. 9dpo can show a bfp, but is not real common. Give it another couple of days and test again. You definitely still have a chance :)

[Dixychick]

Hi Tina,

Thanks for the reply.  What do you think about all the spotting though?  Do you think that means that i just didn't get pregnant?

Laura

[tina1111]

Not by any means. Many women spot when they do get pg and then it stops later. I had one cycle a few months ago that did that. I never did it b4 and knock on wood, since. I wasn't pg, but it certainly doesn't rule it out.