Ok so I never get cramps before AF only on the day of and last about a day after, so ever since before O'ing which i believe was somewhere around 8.10-8.13 till now i've been having cramps and their not as strong or as consistent as AF cramps they really just come and go and dont last very long, my question is for anyone who has had this happened to them how long did it last before getting AF or a BFP???...i keep feeling like AF is gonna show but nothing no spotting or anything and for ladies like me that dont get cramps before AF..were you really prego or did AF show?