im not getting excited just yet...

[LIL_LADY24]

okay I havent had AF since Nov....Im scared to test and get a negative....    I dont think I could be pregnant but I will see what yall think.....I havent had a good bleed since after lap/d&c surgery which was sept 19th and I bled from Oct30-Nov11th and I had to take aygestin to make it stop.  I only BD one day between surgeries which was on the 15th.  My next surgery (lap) was on Nov 21st and my AF (i guess u call it AF, all pink spotting...no brown discharch or clots, or blood just pink) was the 28th, 29th, and stopped on the 30th. DH and I bd on the 30th and that was the last time I bled.  We been BDing ever since the the Dr wanted me to get water filled uterus ultasound to see how everything was healing which was on the 3rd of Dec (if I was preggo/or egg and sperm was in tube and she did that test would there be a possibility of pregnancy) After that water US we BD 9th,13th,16th,20th,24th,26th,28th,jan 1st,and 4th......and I have lately been doing # 2 more than ever but feel like AF trying to peep through with few very very mild cramps, no boobs hurt, lots of gas and no facial breakouts......I just started charting my temps and they have been 98.1 for 2 days and lately 98.3......i dunno what to think....please help me im so scarred of tha bfn results.....................

[LIL_LADY24]

lolololol hey thats not a bad idea huh then yall can give me the results lollolol that was cute.... I think I will wait till DH is at work tomorrow and go buy a test and take it.......I guess 50/50 chance aint too bad lol Okay yall talked me into it I will test this weekend.

[amy0013]

For me the NOT KNOWING would make me an insane woman!  I'd spend too much time obsessing over WHY AF hasn't arrived and thinking of all of the wonderful/other possibilities.  At least once I see a BFN I can accept the reality and start to prepare for the next cycle!

You're a much stronger person than I am!!!  :)

How about you take a test, don't look at it, close your eyes, snap a picture of it and post it on here so at least WE can see the results!  LOL!!!!!!!!

[LIL_LADY24]

I know huh... i told myself i wouldnt take another one lol

[alikat1205]

it would be positive by now.  find out.

[LIL_LADY24]

stilllllllll waiting no signs of AF and no signs of pregnancy.......havent had a real AF since Oct30 and stopped in Nov11th and spotted on Nov. 28th and 29th and havent had anything since.  well yesterday was the first day of my boobs kinda sore but tolerable...........still havent tested cuz im scared!!!! I know yall may call me crazy but all those negatives equal a very insane woman lol but what yall think.......I keep praying that God give me a sign that I am pregnant to give me the urge to take a test.......lol

[LIL_LADY24]

Thanks girl I am trying to wait until the end of this month just incase..I really am symptom free so im not sure how to look at this there are times where I thing about AF and start midly cramping and then there are time I think bout throwing up then feel sick.....I am greatful for all the women on medhelp because it keeps me from going nutts lol....Oh and about our RE...she did my last water ultra sound, with just a urine test, and that was my last follow up..she hasnt called me or checked on my progress..She just suggested IVF and when I come up with the money to call them....when and where would I just get thousands of dollars so thats why I prayed about it and I am keeping my faith that the Lord will make it happen naturally and shock the DRs......Oh yea poor DH ...lol

thanks  girl I really am glad to hear from you and I pray 4 a healthy 9 months....because im ready to be a medhelp auntie!!!!!!!

[ascott]

TEST, TEST, TEST!!!! There is only one way on knowing, TEST! You have always given me strength and support. I bet DH is excited and exhausted with all the Bding. LoL.
I like to talk to you about "our" RE. I am going to send you a message. Is there a possibilty you can find another?? I bet you will have more success, have heard from others.

[amy0013]

Take a test!  Sounds very promising!  Good luck to you and keep us posted!!  :)

[LIL_LADY24]

thanks yea im keeping my faith and my hope

[Anya1984]

If I were you, I would get the pregnancy test, Don't get too upset if you are not pregnant, it looks like you have a good possibility to be pregnant in the near future!!!

[LIL_LADY24]

lol on the BD'ing comment yea I have lol Im praying for this and yea it has been a rough bumpy road thanks for your quick response.......I need all the support I can get!!!!!!!

[kikicoates78]

Well unfortunately there is no way to determine pregnancy just on symptoms, so on that note I don't know, BUT I do hope that you are. You have been having such a rough road, and I hope you all the best.

You have definately covered your bases with BD'ing  GOOD LUCK!