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513660 tn?1217171919

Symptoms after FET ?

Hi all, I am 6dp FET... this is my second attempt at IVF and feel soooooooo negative. Should I feel anything at this point? I feel similar symptoms as last time and it ended in a BFN. Some pulling in lower pelvic area. Could that be progesterone/estradiol meds working on me, or my ovaries working for next cycle or period coming?  I am driving myself crazy.  I feel so down and depressed like its never going to work. Doctors have never found anything wrong with me and don't know why it hasn't worked already.
Please give me any info - what have you felt in the past whether neg or positive..
Last time we did IVF we put 3 day 4 embryos in - this time 4 day 5 (frozies).

Thanks ladies!
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513660 tn?1217171919
Hi thank you so much for your response. I kept real positive for my first IVF and I rested did everything I should and beyond and nothing :(   I really thought I was pregnant then and I wasn't. This time I already feel like its a negative and it may help the let down if I am not pregnant. I don't want to get my hopes up and be let down. I don't think I can go through that again. I feel like its never ever going to happen. I don't think my husband wants to keep doing this - we don't have insurance for ivf. Its costly emotionally as well, ya know? But i know its our only chance at becoming parents. I would keep doing this if I had the insurance. It wouldn't even phase me. I mean, I would be upset, but I'd keep going.  I am trying not to read into symptoms. But I thought I would feel something overwhelming that I would know it worked. Is that not the case? i am now 7 days post a 5 day transfer.
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414225 tn?1247455500
Hi, I'm 6 weeks 3 days pregnant post 2nd round IVF.  Symptoms can make you insane.  If you're on meds, can all be the same as pg symptoms.  You need to stay positive for those embryos.  I read "the secret" to help me use my energy for positivity.  Don't pee test early...will make you crazy too.  It definitely won't work if you're negative.  Imagine all your sypmtoms as early pregnancy signs....behave as if you're all ready pregnant...all the best..hang in there!
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