HELP...

[klv42475]

I need some help and advice. My husband and I have been TTC for 3 yrs and 2 months with no luck. I took Metformin for about 3 years, and I have done 3 cycles of clomid and starting my 4th. I was just told that I have 2 ovarians cysts. 1 on each ovary. They are both small but still they are there. We have not achieved pregnancy in any way and we are devestated that we have yet to conceive. IN your opinion, should we give it a rest and just stop trying in general for a few months or should we go through with AI and IVF and then just stop? I am NOT STRSSED about it (please do not say that I am stressed because I am NOT) just frustrated that we haven't been able to get pregnant. We want children so badly. I have become extremely depressed about this over the past week or so, I have started to loose weight because I am not eating. I need some good advice. I have an appt with a Reproductive Endogrinologist at the end of this month to start MORE blood work and MORE testing. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
I dont know if I can go through all of this testing again. It has been constant testing for pretty much the entire time we have been trying. I have scars on my arms from the constant blood work that has been done. We are desperate to have our OWN children. I am confused and don't know what to do as far as the next step. My family wants us to keep going but I dont know if I can set myself up for many more years of constant disappointment.

[April_Baby]

I am a very religious person and believe it's all about God's timing. I have been waiting patiently to have a baby for the last 5 years and one thing I have noticed, I am closer to God now than ever before . You see, He will put you in situations to bring you closer to Him. Try Him sweetheart. He hears your cry.

I have tried clomid as well and it didn't work for me but it did work for a co-worker that I know. I tried IUI and everything went well but as they were cleaning my husband sperm they discover that his sperm count was a little low. His doctor decided to put him on some pills to increase his mobility and it work. We decided to take it a step further and just completed the IVF. On this Friday, I go for my blood test and I do believe everything will work out.

Please note: I am not trying to preach to you, but if having a family is important to you, don't give up. Put it in the Father's Hands...........Wish you well!!!


April_Baby

[SnowySky]

As a Muslim, God is always in control, not your body. Without food, etc., your body would shut down. God creates and controls, you don't. We've been trying to concieve also but we're not depressed or throwing tantrums because we know that God knows what's best for us. He gives and takes as he pleases and we are pleased with what we have.
Please read the Quran if you want help. Please.

[klv42475]

Also I am NOT religious in any way. I don't feel very strongly that "god" has anything to do with it. It is all about the females body.