I wish there is more science improvement, more advancements in IVF technology, to find out accurate reasons for the failures / chemical pregnancies / miscarriages.
Also wish, there is more advanced IVF technology, where every attempts ends at a successful live birth.
My IVF failed with chemical pregnancy. In follow-up, RE says "i am not too sure why it failed. I dont suggest to go for donor egg now as we just did one attempt. Let us do one more."
Its like baking a cake, failed first time, try again might fail might work.
If second IVF fails, RE might say bad eggs and might ask me to go for donor. I hate this analysis. RE is making predications and assumptions. He does not test me or run some tests on me to drill down to the right reason.
As a patient going through complex process called in-vitro, i deserve to know why i failed. else its a big black hole where i blame myself, i feel guilty for wearing tight pants to eating out to not resting enough.
I want the exact reason why i miscarried. Can someone out there in IVF business help me with it ever???????