June/July 2012 IVFers

[Ginger077]

Anyone starting IVF in June or July?
Let's come together and support one another thru this difficult journey!
Together we can make things a little better!!

I'm 37, got a BFP May 9th that is being taken away from us. DH and I are devistated being is this was our first success after 10yrs ttc. We will start IVF #3 hopefully the middle of June if my cycle is regular. Looking for some cycle buddies to help one another get thru these hard times.
Good luck to everyone!!
Ginger

[Ginger077]

Hi Ladies
Sorry I haven't been around. I'm actually taking a break from med help but it finally hit me that I had deleted this saved thread and haven't posted here in some time.
Missenal and Lynn I've been thinking about you ladies. I'm glad you had your transfers. The 2ww is so hard to get thru. I feel your frustration about coming down to transfer day and only having a couple left. It doesn't seem to matter how many eggs you have initally( I had 20 and none make it to day 5 this time) I think lab conditions play a bigger part then RE's tend to let on. Had I not had a 3 day transfer we would probably have none to transfer. I was convinced we were going to have to move on to donor embryos or eggs that we couldn't afford. Please don't loose faith... IT'S REALLY HARD but I know you ladies can do it.  Once I get my personal drama under control I'll be back on here. Can't wait to hear some good news from you ladies!

[LynnB9]

So yesterday was very interesting, found out that they shouldn't have put, thaw in progress on our paperwork. On the plus side, it was really good news when we found out what is count was, 12 million, (not a lot but a really really good number for us) with 80% motility, all the other factors were pretty good as well.

We had 2 pretty good eggs for transfer, one 8 cell and one 9 cell. Praying and talking to them hoping one of them will stick around for me. I had a good acupuncture appointment today. I don't remember being so tired last time, and I am bored beyond belief. This resting thing is hard work.

[LynnB9]

So know how you are feeling. We had a 3 day transfer, and I was praying that one made it. I only had 3 mature and thank goodness, all 3 fertilized. I also know how you feel about that "it only takes one", it never helps make you feel better, until you get that bfp.

[missienal]

I can not believe this has happened to us again. I am beyond words..I just feel like we got ripped off, so does my Hub. We got 5 eggs, which went to 4 in hours, then day 1 went to 3, and then we go to transfer today to be told we only had 1. So again we have one. 5 try's all different ways and each time only one....$15,000 this time to get one egg, really, that's the best you can do? I had one 4AA blast transferred today..HPT on 8/6. And please no one tell me "it only takes one'. Because one is all I have ever had, with all my try's and still here I am. :(
I'm sorry, just bummed out..When you use a donor..you expect more than one egg. I just can't believe this. But we have a 71% chance it will stick..it better stick or I am going to stick my foot up my doc's a$$!! Okay..I am done venting now. :) hehe Home bound tomorrow..I can't wait to be home.

[beddajess]

Just keep the faith my friend! Thats all we can do when it gets to this point!!! *hugs*

[LynnB9]

Hoping all works out, and you get your bfp soon :)