Miscarriage support

[Neene84]

Hi all, im new on here and looking for any advice an support i can gainfrom you all. I had my mc on 15/12/14 just before christmas. I thought i had gotten over it but i feel dowwn an depressed again. This mc has really taken a toll on me being my second an hurt even more when the hospital said "oh well you have only had 2 mc, go home an keep trying as we wont do nothing until you have a 3rd/4th depending how far aling u get but once u do, its really simple all we have to do is a few blood tests!!!"

anyone been through mc an willing to chat please reply. I  look forward to chatting to you all xx

[sweetmarie908]

Sorry to hear you are going through this.  I had a m/c in June 2014, (4 weeks after our ultrasound revealed no heartbeat at 8.5 weeks).   We got pregnant again in September and it too ended in a m/c in October.  I should have been 8 weeks but the ultrasound revealed an empty sac which stopped developing at 5 weeks.   Needless to say the past 10 months has been nothing short of an emotional rollercoaster.  I took the first m/c the worst.  It was complete devastation and denial...  The second one I grieved, but I shut down because I didn't want to feel that pain again.    

Now this time around my body still hasn't figured out it's cycles yet and that's made getting pregnant again very complicated and frustrating.  

I can relate to feeling ok for a while then randomly one day it will hit me and I'm depressed...  The hardest times for me have been the milestone dates... such as 20 weeks when we should have been finding out the gender or the due date when we should have been welcoming our son or daughter... Seeing posts or hearing news about people who were due when we were and thinking "that should have been us".  Those are the days I have to remind myself that everything happens for a reason and while I don't really understand it, I know God has a plan for us.  It doesn't take the pain away, but it gives me something to hope for in the future.  

I hope you are able to find peace.  

[Memii37]

Hii, i'm so sorry for your loss :( i had a mmc dec 2014 too! And it was a horrible experience because i had all contraction just like giving birth even though i was only 11 weeks pregnant! And even though i started working again and everything went back to normal, still feel bad about myself, i just felt like i wasn't good enough to be a mother :( i can really feel you as i am still not fully recovered from the loss feeling! Guess we'll feel better when we get pregnant again and pass the first trimester :(

[samgunn]

i have had 3 mc. and on the 3rd i pressed the doc for a work up. the lab took 19 tubes of blood, did an ultrasound to see if thins looked ok. they also did an hsg, and a hysterosonogram. then a hysteroscopy in dec. i just had to be a huge pain in the a** to the doc. the depression only really started going away when i found out i was prego again. the doc i have is a regular obgyn.

[aamir1]

I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks on 7 August 2014 .I just want to cry all the time that was the first time I conceive after trying for two years I completely understand your pain. I will pray for you
Remember me in your prayers as well

[Neene84]

Thank you all very very much for yoyr lively fonnents of support i really appreciate it an feel a lot better with your suppirt from who have been throyfh it as my family try to be there but they just dont fully understand my pain!!
Sprinkles of fbaby and ertility dust to u all xx all

[ZoeyJane2012]

Hi sister, I have lost 2 babies as well. My angels come to visit me in my dreams every so often. Its hard and I'm am still trying to get through my losses still  But there is plenty of support here and I will pray for you that thesedays will pass and you can grieve aand heal. May God protect you and your body and may He give you all the love you were have for those babies. And I pray you will be blessed with a beautiful family down your path.

[Blasian1121]

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[icelemon]

Sorry to hear abt ur loss.  Its time to go look for a diff doc.  I will suggest go look for a fertility specialist.

[uhmanduhxconrad92]

Hey Hun...I am terribly sorry for the loss of your sweet babies. Sadly I know how you feel....I miscarried my baby at 13 and a half weeks on October 29. I am still having a very hatf time adjusting which is completely normal....I pray youu soon have peace of mind and a happy healthy baby soon.