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1827658 tn?1318226993

Trying to have a family!!

Hello I am 27 years old and have been married for almost 7 years Back in 2005  right after I got married I found out I was 6 weeks pregnant and then 3 days later I started bleeding!! I haven't had a period since I really want a family I am a little over weight and I am trying to keep my self healthy but still nothing. Is anyone else having similar symptoms? I feel like less of a Woman and I am not getting no younger It just make me really depressed:(
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Well you need to have a period, especially if you want to conceive.  I would recommend going to a different doctor and tell them that you are ready to start trying for a family.  They will most likely start you on provera to start your period and then bring you back for a CD 21 blood test.  This is typically done 7 days after suspected ovulation.  Most readings over 6 mean that you have ovulated (all doctors are different - some say over 10, some say over 15).  They'll likely do that for a few months.  If it is determined that you are not ovulating they will most likely start you on an ovulation inducing drug - clomid or femara and continue the CD 21 blood test.  

I recommend using ovulation predictors (you can get them at the grocery store) or to start temping.  However, neither one of these will work if you aren't having a period and/or ovulating.  So, definitely start with a doctor (a new one if you haven't been happy with your previous ones) and go from there.  Not having a period is 7 years is not normal and should be checked out regardless of wanting to start a family or not.  Your uterus stays healthy by shedding each month.  

Good luck!  
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1422615 tn?1334064234
I am so sorry. I know they can give u something. I have taken it before!!! GL
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1827658 tn?1318226993
My husband has a child previous to our marriage so I know It's not him. I feel like less than a woman with out my monthly friend!!
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1827658 tn?1318226993
Yes in the past and I have seen different doctors and they tend to say the same thing that I am fine:( But in all honesty I know I'm not fine!! I have a appt coming up on the 24th so I am hoping they can give me something that will give me my period back and then go from there. Also I want to have various tests done to check my hormones and etc.
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Yes i agree go see a dr and see I'f they cxn get the ball running
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1422615 tn?1334064234
Do u have an obgyn? Have u been to the dr. since the miss carriage?  They can give u meds to help start u.
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