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1145580 tn?1267508175

Not feeling positive at all :(

My Beta is 12/28 and I admit I took my first hpt early this morning...NEGATIVE! I no longer have gas, not too much bloating and I feel like AF is coming. The closer I get to Beta date and AF time the sadder I feel. I don't feel anything! And I'm saddened by this. Anyone here who had symptoms then stopped feeling things but still had a BFP? I need some feedback ladies...PLEASE
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1145580 tn?1267508175
Hi...well Beta 1 is 2morrow and I started spotting...I'm scared of the result! Feels like another BFN...soooo sad!
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1145580 tn?1267508175
Hi...well Beta 1 is 2morrow and I started spotting...I'm scared of the result! Feels like another BFN...soooo sad!
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1150468 tn?1290506050
O nikk I understand exactly the feeling your talking about when you have to tell your husband. this is my third IVF cycle(one frozen) so I had to give the news twice and it hurts. Even though we have unexplained pregnancy diagnosis I feel that I am all the blame when it doesn't work. The time when I was pregnant and then miscarried was even worse. he told everyone and i know it was hard on him to hear that i wasn't. this time it was hard not to tell him but i didn't tell him about my first beta I told him that this new doctor makes you wait to her the news on the second beta. I know I lied but I think it would be easier if I could wait to tell him when I really know or closer to the u/s. Everyone am I wrong for not sharing?
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Hello!! Well....from what I've been hearing is that the progestrone will cause cramping and it's suppose to.  I was also told that the breast tenderness is not always an indication of whether or not it has worked?? Personally, I am experiencing both symptoms ( my breasts feel like they are gonna fall off they hurt SO bad) but I have had two negative tests.  I am still only 9 days post ET so I am still gonna hold onto a little hope but be more prepared than last time.  Ladies, I'm a tough cookie, but I can't stand the look on my husband's face when I have to tell him another cycle has failed!! I know you all know what I mean.....I will say a big prayer for all of us tonight!!!
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1150468 tn?1290506050
O did i mention I had breast tenderness and now it's gone away. is this a bad sign?

again hi to all
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1150468 tn?1290506050
I'm new to this site and looking for support. my second beta test is tomorrow and I am so scared. the first one was 440 but I've been having cramping. Don't know what to think.....
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