please help help???

[zaini75]

hello everyone...i am just new in this forum and i like it so very much.....i m so much depreesed now a days i cant tell anybody..this is our v first iui done on 19th april with injectables and hcg trigger shot ..we r trying to concive for almost 4 years..also done 6 months of clomid cycle but invain..no problem at al...now i tell my real story which is worrying me..sorry i m not so good in english..Everthing was totally normal but 6  dp iui i felt some cramping that ithought AF is just coming but nothing happened...then 12 dp iui again i felt same craming and this time 2may i felt some spotting for whole day but only when i wiped...at night v small amount of blood(sorry to all) but not as period ( usually i have v heavy periods for first 4 days)..
this continued for about 3 days but v little..my beta test was due on 4th may which became negative...it stopped spotting totally on 5th may and still my periods have not come..now i am 22 dp iui...and from almost 11 days i hav much abdominal cramping ,tender boobs for 2 days...sometimes v little nausea., sudden hunger...v thirsty....sudden cold and hot flashes...shortness of breath...stomach and constipation problem...altime burpinga (again sorry) spescially while lying on bed..and from 3 days left side pain.last week much lower back pain whic is no more now....
one more thing that i hav already stopped taking progesterone from 6 days..
now pleaseeeeeeee someone tell me what is happening to me...i also done HPT  last night but still neg...
i hav so much desire for children that i just think  i will die without them bcoz i was so hopefull with my iui...after both tests neg but i hav still hope that is something happening news which i never ever feel....please help me what ihav to do???? i cal my iui doctor for my leftside pain but she does not take it seriously and tell me to go to emergeny if hav severe pain...i am just crying from two days but stll hoping that i am pregnant??? or am i optimistic????is it possible to be pregnant afte tests are neg and also some bleeding..?''pleaseeeeeeeeeanswer me sooooon

[zaini75]

sorry another question...when side effects of progesteron actually finish after stopping  medication

[zaini75]

thanks a lot for ur quick answer ...i am also worried about a cyst but i still having hope to be pregnant..i hav also another beta test today n tomorrow i wil take results....please pray for me

[mnardiroquette]

It is understandable...but please try to calm down...it would be difficult for you to get pregnant is you are so anxious...a test can fail if it is negative, not positive, so I guess you still have a chance...however, let me tallyou a story. My dear friend Susanna could nto conceved. She tried everything for 4 years until they decided to adopt. Adotpion procedures take long time, so after two years tehy were finally called to go to Vietnam to piack up their baby boy. A week before going, she got pregnant. Now htey have twobeautiful chidlren. This just to say that until she finally gave up her stress for not getting pregnant, she could not become so....
Best of luck

[babywanted556]

the hot flash, tender boobs, pregnant symptoms and so on may came from progesterone and trigger shoot which is HCG homorme.  If you actually pregnant, you body also secrete actual HCG and progesterone itself and you got about the same symptoms which cause you morning sick.  For the serve pain, maybe you have a cyst which is the follicle with or without egg getting bigger and could not release itself.  It may take a cycle to resolve itself.  If you keep having the server pain, some how you have to end up to ER to drain it out.  I hope you feel better in a few days.  Ask for the medicine to bring up the AF, wait another cycle to try again.  Good luck on the comming cycle.