To babydayz421, Vingulf, Jennyfer976, babywanted556, Rach1717, Izzychick, Stillwaiting52, rumsy, ceeperkins, wishing4#2, diana1975, Lynn72, sam75, milky72, jenandjon, jastinker, Jen7900, Jessbob, fifi blue.. & any one I forgot.
I just want to say such a big thankyou to you all, It has been so good to here from you all.
Its nice to know that you all care, & thanks for private messages .
I am hoping you are all alright, those that have there BFP which they deserve, those who have failed & those who are just about to start, & not forgetting those of you who are still on the dreaded 2ww.
I have spoken to my dh who said we can do another cycle I think he just wanted me to stop crying(bless) this has been harder than I thought it would be, much harder, I have to take my hat off to those of you that have had 1 or more failed IVF. its hard when we was trying naturally but I never got obsessed with it if AF turned up it turned up, yes I was disapointed but I didnt feel like my world had caved in..
with ivf I suppose I just thought well its gonna work first time & that was it.. So did DH. I feel such a loss for my little embryos that died, its so hard to explain & some of you will probably think I am a bit mad, but I really feel gutted about that.
Today is a new day & I am trying to pick myself up, it is hard with DH not here, but I am sure I will get there. You have all helped me get this far which I didnt think I would be able too, 2 days ago.
I am not crying constantly anymore which is good, as you all have said as time goes by it gets clearer, It has made me look at how my life is & how much pressure I put on myself, I have my own business, Am moving to australia & doing another diploma, as well as working full days as therapist in my salon, & running my home, looking after 3 dogs & my DH, How could Ivf be a success if I have all this pressure on top of the pressure that comes with infertility.
I have decieded to sell my business, & cut my hours before I do my next cycle, I think that will help.
I just wanted you all to know that yes it has been so so hard for me, but with your support I have realised it is not then end of my world as previously thought & I will get through this..
But it would have been a lot harder without you all!
we are all blessed to have been able to form the friendships we have on this site, if we think of all those women out there that havent found this site & have to go through all this alone, it must be terrible.
Just want to send you all a big hug back!! & love & I am still wishing & praying that we all get our BFP very soon x x
love to you all Thanks again for so many things!!