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317019 tn?1532965586

still no AF and too scared to test :(

im anywhere between 25-27 days into my cycle and my cycles are normally 22-24 days (or so they were)....who knows...i didnt test today but ill try testing again tomorrow if no AF...

i did notice some very light pink spots on the tp when i checked my cervix earlier today and so i drank a lot of water and checked it later and there was absolutely nothing

and i have been soooooo tired

my bbs have been sore and im feeling bloated now too

....good signs i know but i wont believe it til i see that BFP with no doubts
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494640 tn?1262737989
dont no whats goin on with late afs this month i as 6 days late its even more crushing when its late bcuz your hopes get built up aww our time will come i know it in my heart good luck everyone hers to my month loool x
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512544 tn?1265994875
I'm so sorry that AF showed up. I was pulling for you to be positive. Stay strong and keep faith that one day we all will be blessed and have our day with the positive we want.
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143123 tn?1274300825
Well, AF showed up with a vengence.  Cramps from H*** and all!  I was in denial...I'm not going to lie.  When I woke this morning and found red on the tp, I thought implantation.  Because with me being a day late, I expected it to be heavy, like usual when I'm late.  Well, as the day went on she got heavier.  So, it's AF for sure.  I was so disappointed.  I cried all morning.  Oh well...anyone else?
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564144 tn?1226696118
Well as you all know i tested yesterday and got a BFN. Later on that night i felt something leaking down there like AF was here (sorry TMI!)....It was actually EWCM! and lots of it! Do you think that this could be O? I didn't know that it could happen on the last day of my cycle. This whole situation has given me a little glimpse of hope:)

Well thank you all for listening.......and i'll let ya'll know how everything turns out!
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512544 tn?1265994875
Maybe ladies I'm in denial.... Even though AF showed her ugly fave yesterday morning, I still feel there is a possibilty for a pregnancy this month, I'm still having all the symptoms even nausea(very heavy) do ya think maybe I should still my ER for blood work tuesday, or should face the fact. Because I've heard of women being pregnant even though ugly auntie came to show up.

Why is her name AF? She is the meanest aunt I ever had came to visit.
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587609 tn?1272996141
it's so weird to see so many girls in the same place as me! i got a bfn this morning after a week of agonizing. i also have the symptoms... exhausted. sore heavy bbies... bloated. still no af and am now in cd35... but i am a little irregular still so i am going to wait a week then test again.

i'm sorry to hear so many other bfn's... but i don't feel so alone. i hope everyone has an easier time next time around!
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353148 tn?1293061164
I'm so sorry all you ladies. I hope that you are jsut testing too soon and instead of AF BFP comes soon for you.
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564144 tn?1226696118
Well everyone....I got a BFN this morning:( AF isn't due till tomorrow...I'm pretty sure it will be here right on time! Sorry to hear about all of the BFN's this month:( I wish all the others who haven't tested the best of luck and i hope this is your month! I'm gonna relax until it's time to do it all over again next month!
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540911 tn?1263191014
Something you should check out if you still don't get AF and it's been a while is a luteal cyst that's stuck around.  That can keep AF away with a neg test.  
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143123 tn?1274300825
Well, I tested again this evening and still BFN!  I'm going to test again in the morning (day of AF).  The only weird thing is I don't feel like AF is coming.  But, I should have had a BFP by now, so she's got to be around the corner.  I really thought this was my month!  I guess I was wrong...
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353148 tn?1293061164
WOW, I'm so sorry. I was realy pulling 4 U!!!!
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317019 tn?1532965586
thanks lady....im just waiting for AF now....i know she's coming....she just needs to hurry up so i can let my hopes go
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494640 tn?1262737989
it must be a late month for every one this cycle i was 6 days late then af came lol heads up i know its hard but we can do it together x
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317019 tn?1532965586
well ladies..i tested this morning again and got another BFN....still no AF

i had a doctor appt at my normal family doctor to discuss my blood clotting disease and depression and he decided to do a blood test and try to get to the bottom of this

my gyno said to call back next week and when i hit 35 days if still BFN and no AF they will give me meds to force my period to come

im still waiting :(

im pretty much just waiting for the negative at this point....i actually want AF to come
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143123 tn?1274300825
Take some time off if you need to.  If this isn't my month, I think I've pretty much talked myself into trying next month by myself, no RE.  I think that is my problem...I'm stressing myself out trying to make everything work on their schedule.  Because with my last 2 m/c's I got pregnant first try.  I thought about taking a break myself, before I started back TTC, after my last m/c.  But, DH told me we had been through too much to give up.  So, here we are.  2 months later and probably no BFP.  I wish you luck and stay strong!
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512544 tn?1265994875
I can't understand how this couldn't be the time for us. I was so sure this time, how could I be so wrong. It's like I don't know my left from my right, I'm angry, wanting to ball up and cry, my heart feels so empty when I have so much love to give.

The best thing for me is to stop ttc again, and focus on me, I can't help feeling like I'm grieving all over again, it's to painful. When I go back to the doctor's I decided to go on the pill, can't stand the hurt every single month since the last miscarriage.

Thank you all from the love I have in my heart to give to all.
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143123 tn?1274300825
Aww NEONA, I'm so sorry!  I cheated and tested this morning with FMU and got a BFN!  I'm looking for AF to show tomorrow as scheduled, I'm afraid.
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512544 tn?1265994875
I'll tell you what I got. All I received this morning was AF before I can open the dame
HPT open, and heartache.
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353148 tn?1293061164
Hey, did anyone test today? I want to know what you all got!!!
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564144 tn?1226696118
i'm also 11dpo and i will be testing on Fri. too! I kinda feel like it is gonna be a BFN, but like they say...It aint over until AF comes! I will be posting my results Fri. morning whether they are good or bad. I hope to see alot of BFP's this month. I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you guys!
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143123 tn?1274300825
Well still BFN today.  So, I'm waiting until Friday to test.  I'll test that morning with FMU and we shall see.  I'm 11DPO today and thought for sure it would have shown something.  Maybe not.  Good luck ya'll!!!
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Well i will be testing friday also, i get up at 5:30 every day like clock work to take bbt and pee, will post my results hummm maybe at 5:45 if it negative, it will take longer, yall might here me crying all the way in georgia.  
Good luck houston and wwaitn
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405370 tn?1332206110
I hate disappointments too!  I'm testing on Friday and if I see BFN again, you'll hear me crying all the way in PA.   I can't wait until you test tomorrow and I'll be praying for you tonight!

krushing-I'm going to be glue to my laptop watching for your post!

NEONA-  Good luck tomorrow!!

SSBD to all!!!
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317019 tn?1532965586
ill be testing sometime tomorrow and will post my results when i get home from work

im just so scared of diappointment anymore but the suspense is driving me crazy
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