PLz Help

[moriany]

Hi, Im 26 and my fiance and I have been trying to concieve for a bit over a year... Im irregular, but we have cuchi cuchi like almost everyday. The thing is that im scared that i might not be fertile.. we want a baby and im getting negative because its not working, sometimes i feel like im not a whole woman ... i need a doctors opinion on what should i do... i dont have health insurance and i dont know what to do now if i should get a fertility test done and how much it would cost me. Someone plz help, im sounding desp but actually i am some poeple just dont know how badly at my age the presence of a child is needed,  I love kidz and i dont know what else to do or where to go....i went to do an pap smear this year but it came out good ... when usually it always comes out abnormal and they want me to go back to get another test done... but i never go cause of moving or i forget,,,, but thistime it didnt come out abnormal... i dont know if i should be worry still or what.... i know its alot of things going throu my mind right now ... but if theres someone out there that can help me and/or a doctor i would really appriciated with all my heart... this means alot to me and my loved ones ... thank you in advance .. :)

[paranoidpatty]

I agree with the above poster.  There are so many things that have to be looked into when trying to figure out your problem.  Some women have had every single test and came out clear and still can't conceive.  Have you considered seeing an RE specialist?

[moriany]

Its not that im more worried about the money casue i can afford it its just that some places are better than others even u have insurance or not ... and i would like to get an idea of how much it can be thats all i know for a fact that babies need insurance and require alot of money im 26 yrs old and not getting any younger, i know better.. infact it may have sounded like it but really money is not even the issue here.. thnx for the advice tho i really appr...

[lmcrt]

How irregular are your periods????? There are so many components to getting pregnant. If you are serious about getting prego then I would go to a obgyne and get basic hormonal bloodwork to start. Also you need to pinpoint when you are ovulating you can use OPKs for that. Don't have sex everyday every other day around time of ovulation is best. 40% of couples TTC without success in one year is due to male factor infertility. So if its been a year of trying then I would send your partner for a semen anaylsis. This all could be very costly, and a baby is even more money. If your worried about costs becuase you don't have insurance, then maybe you should really think about all this. Babys need insurance and are very costly. I wish you the best and hope only good things for you. Good luck