i am so sorry for what you are going through...i cant even begin to imagine how you are feeling. i would just like to ask you a question...have all your pregnancies been monitored by your obgyn...or are you seeing a specialist?
again, i am so sorry..and my thoughts and prayers go out to you!!!
I am so sorry for all of your losses i can only imagine you pain i have had three miscarriages but all were before 8 weeks. But as to what you should do, I think you should see another doc. There should have been extensive testing after the 18 weeks pregnancy if not the 13 weeks preg too. I hope that you find some peace and that you are able to find a doc that will do some testing and find out what is happening. Again i am so sorry!
Amanda
I have been monitored for at least the last 3 and none of the high risk doctors have done much of anything because i think that their approach has been let nature take its course and If im going to lose i'll lose, I don't know I am starting to wonder the purpose of a high risk doctor?
Thank you very much,
were you successful with any of your pregnancies after your losses?
I'm sooo sorry to hear about your losses....I can't imagine what you are going through. I had a m/c in June and I hope it doesn't happen again. I can tell you that I would get bloodwork done. After my m/c I went to see an RE just b/c it took me 14 weeks to get af back after m/c. I asked him to do all the m/c screening bloodwork. He said he wasn't concerned but he would do it. I ended up testing positive for compound heterozygous MTHFR. So I'm glad I got the tests done. Now I have to take extra vitamins and an aspirin a day. Good luck to you!
I am soo sorry for you honey. Losing a child is horrible no matter how far you are. I too have sufffered multiple losses (6+1ectopic) but all before 6 weeks. No specialist has been able to find a reason either. It is very devastating. Every time I think "this is it", and then the bleeding starts! GRR!! I would consider a second opinion because you are loosing them so far. Most m/c occur <8 weeks or so. And don't rush yourself to "get over it". You must allow yourself to grieve. I said a prayer for you. God Bless!!
Hi, I did have one sucessful pregnancy after the first m/c but since then nothing yet but i just started my first round of clomid this month so i hope to change that. good luck to you and keep me posted
Amanda