NEGATIVE AGAIN!!

[MrsNDLC]

We have been trying since last November; regular SI, regular periods, baseline bloods for me normal, hubby's tests pending...

My period is late (all be it a day) but cervix extremely high and CM increased in amounts in last few days, no normal period pains noted. And we had SI about 9 times during and either side of my "fertile window."

My breasts have enlarged and have been more sensitive,  I've been suffering from really bad insomnia which is not me at all, I've been having unexplained hypos (T1DM) and occassional nausea (again...not like me).

I bit the bullet and thought....could I be?
NEGATIVE URINARY PREGNANCY TEST.....AGAIN!!!!

Devastated. Angry. Distraught. Emotional. Why me. What have I done wrong. Why can't there be two blue lines. I can't keep doing this month after month. Will the second line appear if I plead for long enough......

Does this sound familiar to anyone?

Any guidance,  words of wisdom, words of support would be appreciated.  I havr no friends having these problems; they're all producing babies :-(

Thank you x

[jenbax86]

We have been trying since april last year so trust me I feel your pain. I've had a few lat af now and each time it hurts more than the last. This month was the worst though. Got positive ovulation test and exactly a week later started spotting and because it was so light (my period is normally really heavy) I thought it might be implantation . But then 5 days later I suddenly got really heavy flow and am now inthe middle of full blown period. I know its devastating, especially when everyone around us seems to fall so easily but we just need to remember that what's for us wont pass us and to just keep trying. Good luck x

[Sanjivani Wanjari, MD]

HI,
It can be quite frustrating to get negative pregnancy test after delayed periods. However you need to keep emotion in check as the stress and anxiety can in turn hamper normal ovulation. Also you should check out with a gynaecologist and do some basic tests like an examination, hormonal panel and ultrasound scan and semen analysis of husband. If any problem is found then appropriate treatment will help you to conceive.
The answer is based on information provided. Exact advice is not possible without a proper examination and investigations. You are requested to consult your Doctor. Take care and keep us posted.