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ttc after miscarriage

ERPC on the 1st September.  Thought I was coming out of this haze I hve been in but today I cant stop crying. So emotional its unreal. I am so ready to try again but this tww is so draining. I just want my baby and time is having fun at my expense (thats wat it feels like to me). Thx for letting me vent. Hugs to u all who have walked this path xx
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I know how everyone feels, I had a miscarriage on may14, it was really hard.. I've had 2 other kids befi e that and everything went down perfectly,  the first month I was a total mess, I was crying almost daily .. the worst part of all I went threw was having to go and get a d&c.. her it's been like 5 months and I can't help but cry sometimes .. well a week ago I found out I have polycystic ovarian syndrome and my doctor is telling me I'm not olvating, but time heals pain so just take it slow and find someone to talk to because holding it back is bad.. loosing my baby made my husband and I closer because I talked to him about it. It will be ok.. where all with u..  also my biggest fear is getting pregnant and not knowing if your gonna loose the baby or not.. you never relize how special and dangerous pregnancy is and how many ppl loos the pregnancy ...
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The wait is absolute agony but working out, having lunches and dinners out with friends, and finding any excuse not to be home helped a great deal.  

Loribird I am soo sorry for your loss.  I will keep you in my prayers. :)
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I know exactly how you feel. I had four miscarraiges in a row.  the last one was 15 months ago.  We are now working with a fertility specialist.  I am also just starting my 2ww, it's killing me.  If I am pregnant I know it will be like torture just waiting to see if I miscarry.
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Thanks alot. Im gonna do that cos im literally symptom watching its driving me nuts!!! Will do xx
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The two week is extremely difficult.  Staying busy with work and spending time with friends and family helped me.  Sometimes, it helps not to have time to just sit and think.  You can seriously "what-if" yourself to death!

Good luck to you and Keep us posted! :)
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