Frustrating, isn't it ? I don't have fibro (at least not primary)... but I have CFS and it is RIDICULOUS what we have to go through to get an accurate diagnosis and treatment.
For anyone who is newly diagnosed and/or looking for a competent, pro-active physician... here is my advice:
1) Consider googling, "Co Cure's Good Doctor List" for a list of physicians who frequently diagnose and treat fibro and CFS.
2) Make sure your other physician has ruled out Chairi Malformation and lyme disease. Testing for lyme disease is often screwy.... for more information on the preferred test (after you try the others), check out:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/746480
3) Here is one of my journal entries on physicians who were chronically ill with fibro, CFS, sarcoidosis & lyme... and successfully treated their own conditions. All of these physicians now help other patients with these conditions. These are the physicians that I listen to:
http://www.medhelp.org/user_journals/show/44526?personal_page_id=1064
4) Check out our health pages (look to the upper right to your screen).... you may also want to read the discussions we've had with our MedHelp guest physician, Dr. Garth Nicolson, in October. Dr. Nicolson and his team have discovered L-form bacteria in fibro, CFS and patients who have autoimmune diseases. Just like lyme disease, many of these patients respond well to antibiotic therapy. There are also natural formulas available. The key is to do your research and then I would recommend printing it up and handing it to your physician. Dr. Nicolson's website address is http://www.immed.org
I am happy that your neurologist cares about you and you have him or her on your side. I would recommend firing your other physician and checking out Co Cure's list.
I hope this helps.... stick around !