I was told by my doctor just a few days ago that I had gall bladder disease. I had all the symtoms, plus horrible heartburn pain, all he wanted to do was take it out. I couldn't afford, and went to a health store and bought some Turneric capsules along with a Enzyme for digestion. This was a miracle! I took 2 pills after dinner, I was relieved from pain shortly after taking. Please give this amazing all natural plant food a try!!! You will see a HUGE difference.
Also follow up on drinking a mixture of organic apple cider/ apple viniger/with teaspoon of olive oil for disolving gall stones. Taste aweful but works!
First of all congrats on becoming a dad! I certainly don't get your post, but then I get it. Just sounds like you need to talk and keep all communications open with her doctors. They are not stupid and Gallbladder surgery is quite common these days. I had mine taken out 1 week ago...she would not be the 1st pregnant woman to have her gallbladder taken out while being pregnant. Stop talking nonsense and talk to her doctor. No one knows better than THE DOCTORS!!!! They certainly are going to do everything to keep the baby and her healthy. If she is in pain for her GB and the doctors want it out...then talk about it and do something about it. I didn't have probelms with any acid like you mention.
Best of luck to you and your wife!