am i at risk?

[worriedtnt78]

hello
my problem is recently since 5 days i gave a blowjob to guy i met him online and  for the first time in my life and i tasted precum. the guy was more terrified from me in sex and he claimed he does not have any dieseas but after the incident since the first night i am having night sweating and chills i realy dont know why.

thank you

[Sara_MHModerator]

As you had no risk and negative tests to confirm it, this is not an HIV concern.  We are now closing this discussion.

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[GuitarRox]

I think you were the only one that ever had any doubt that your HIV test would be negative.  You had no risk, of course it was negative.  

[worriedtnt78]

i have been so anxious the last weeks i had night sweeat  and nightmaresfor 2 weeks and blisters on back and thrush going away slowly, muscle crumb pain, lastly i got trauma as doctor said i could been died if i continued thinking about it.thats why i went for test

[sunilkashyap]

You did not have any risk for HIV. The symptoms that you mention in the question are certainly not due to HIV, because ARS symptoms WILL NOT IN ANY CASE appear on the very next day of a risky exposure. Your symptoms are mostly due to anxiety. See a physician if they persist. You can go get tested for other STIs, but you will not get HIV by tasting precum. The very odd cases of hiv being transmitted orally always had extenuating circumstances like a metmouth, or a heavily bleeding gum.

[worriedtnt78]

well ia m planing to test soon for STI because i feel burna in my mouth and to test in 2/3months for HIV and as you said probablt anxiety because i am kind alone niw and only thing i can think about is that stupid night.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Testing makes no sense. You don't have HIV so why would you test for HIV when the problem is anxiety and loneliness issues?
The advice was :mostly" anxiety, not what you have claimed "probably" anxiety, so that is further indication that you are suffering a lot with anxiety. Consider therapy because that might give you instant relief whereas it is unlikely that you will accept the test results since you don't accept the science that you have no risk.

[worriedtnt78]

thank you for reply, you really made me more comfortable now.
yeah i need to accept the scince as you said.

[worriedtnt78]

i just tested negative after 6 weeks even for syphilis what do you think guys ??

[Alex_Kay]

From the incident you describe you are not at any risk for HIV.  As for other STD's there is a small risk so you should get tested for them but not HIV. The risk is extremely low. All other STD's that you might have caught from unprotected oral (small risk) are curable.  Your symptoms are probably from stress! Just relax wait for the STD window periods and get tested. Let us know what happens but I'm confident that you are fine.  

[worriedtnt78]

well i dont know maybe from the stress because since he left the fist thing came in mind HIV and start searching online and get confused evrytime and i dont know what to do.
thanks for rplying me

[AnxiousNoMore]

You can't get HIV from oral so you had zero risk. googling will only make you more anxious, because you can read anything there, so no matter what you plan to do in the next 10 minutes including walking on a sidewalk, Google will locate someone who will tell you that you might die from it.

HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make your encounter a risk for HIV. No one got HIV from the situation you encountered in 40 years and likely no one will in the next 40 of your life, and doctors have calculated that there is less likelihood of HIV transmission happening than of you getting hit by a meteor as you read this.

[worriedtnt78]

well thats pretty good to hear because i
this is my first gay sex  even oral sex with male thats what makes me nervious all the time.
thank you for replying