Risk of HIV transmission from protected anal sex and brief unprotected oral

[kevinjones7]

Three days ago I had a brief drunken encounter with a Asian transsexual  living in the UK who I Iater found out to be a  high end escort. During the encounter I received receptive anal sex for about 30 seconds - 1 minute with a condom on and gave oral for about 30 seconds also. I have spoken to her and she has confirmed she is clean and that we used protection after I frantically asked her. She said she wouldnt' even give me oral in case I wasnt clean and doesnt do 'dirty sex'. She 100 percent said we used a condom. I am petrified I may have contracted HIV. I am going out my mind with worry and need somebodies help. Should I get tested?

Kevin

[PJ2239]

Absolutely no risk.

[kevinjones7]

Hi, thank you for your response it is highly appreciated. My worrying began as I was drunk and had to ask wether she was protected. She has assured me she did and claims to never do dirty sex and assured me she wore one. I know I maybe being irrational but this is crippling me. How can I move past this fear and get my life back? Also if after 4 weeks I have no symptoms do you think I should purchase a home test kit. I just want to be okay and have peace of mind after an act so out of character for me.

[CurfewX]

Oral sex, protected or unprotected, is not a risk for HIV.

You had protected anal sex, and the key word is "protected."  You did not have a risk of contracting HIV from that encounter.  

HIV risks in adults are:
Unprotected, penetrative anal or vaginal sex
Sharing IV drug works with other IV drug users

If you do neither of those activities, you will not have to worry about HIV.