handjob HIV exposure?

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Well, i decided to get a handy at a massage parlor, this was a one time deal, i was a little desperate. anyhoo...
she took her clothes off, just to excite me i suppose. I was lying on my back, she was leaning over me letting me squeeze her butt etc. she definitely used lube from a little bottle. i wasn't watching what she was doing down there THAT closely, it seemed pretty straight forward and simple. i do not think she spit/drooled on my penis at any time, but i wasn't watching THAT closely.
after i ejaculated (shot upwards on her breasts) she grabbed a box of tissues and wiped her chest off, then grabbed a new tissue and wiped my penis off. then she came back with a hot towel and cleaned my penis area thoroughly.  
I was not concerned until she left the room, and i was getting dressed. She had dropped one of the tissues on the ground and I saw a few pinkish spots on the tissue. I can't be sure it was blood... it was very pale pink. There was a sink in the room and I immediately washed my stuff again.  
There were no visible abrasions on my penis.
My concern is if she spit or something on my penis with blood in her spit and rubbed it on the end! I have no idea! Like I said, i never saw her spit or anything. It was just that damn tissue that worries me.
I have ejaculated since then into a tissue and didn't see any blood or anything there.

[Sara_MHModerator]

Hello, it has been shared with you how HIV is transmitted and accurately conveyed to you that you can not get HIV through a hand job.  We are now closing this discussion as there is nothing to add to no risk.

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[AnxiousNoMore]

You had no risk for HIV and a test would be a waste of time.    
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only adult risks are unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal sex or sharing needles that you inject with. This sentence is all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established.
No one got HIV from touching or oral activities in 40 years of HIV history, so likely no one will in the next 40 years of your life either.
Washing does nothing to prevent HIV.

[bfisk]

well that does make me feel better. It's just got me all worked up, and I will definitely never do that again! i wasn't worried except for the pink tinted tissue. I'm not even sure that was mine for the record, it could have already been there. can certain lubes do that or something? She definitely didn't seem like the type of person that would intentionally be trying to infect me.  she was very nice and quiet.

[AnxiousNoMore]

There is no reason to not do that again. Your problem is not disease it is unwarranted fear of disease.

Your ideas about that tissue are unscientific so reread about "Only" again because you were a long ways away from any of those risks.

[bfisk]

okay thank you. so if you get HIV/Aids infected blood rubbed on your penis/urethra you're not at risk? how is THAT possible!??? lol
ps, are you a doctor/scientist? just curious.  

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my issue is that I've read a few other site that talk about blood in saliva being a possible fluid of transmission. like pre-chewed food from mothers etc. i really want to believe you!!

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that site is talking about visible blood being present, like what i saw on that tissue... maybe.

[AnxiousNoMore]

We are not affiliated with other sites and no one here is going to read what someone else claims on their site, since we rely on the opinion of expert doctors instead.
It is the expert doctors opinion that I gave previously, not my personal one.