Am I or my girlfriend really at risk

[amen829]

I recently had sex in Thailand with a girl where I performed oral sex on her then sex with a condom and the I received oral sex from a ladyboy with no ejaculation and then had sex with him with a condom but again didnt ejaculate. I had some dental work done 5 days earlier. 5-7days after getting back home had enlarged lymph nodes and sore throat and bed sweats for 2 days. I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend and came in her now 2 weeks after that she has enlarged lymph nodes, sore throat, one night of bed sweat and also green mucus keeps coming into her mouth nose. I know I have to get tested but before I do wondering on the probability I have HIV and have passed it on to my girlfriend.

[amen829]

Thanks Teak, it was just the occurrence of the symptoms in my girlfriend that made me worry, she had never had enlarged lymph nodes before and some of the symptoms matched. There's no harm in getting a test , thanks again

[Teak]

You never had an exposure and don't need test for HIV.

[amen829]

I'm just a little concerned about the fact I gave oral with a possible abrasion or cut in my gum from having a crown removed. I know the odds are high but still some risk.The girl said she was clear but you can never be sure. I know a test is a must. I also have a small patch of psoriasis in my groin area, can't find any info if there's any possible transmission from that..

[Teak]

You were never at risk of contracting HIV in the situations you've provided.