Thank you!. As far as morals, I have been out of the closet to my wife for 8 years about being gay. She has supported me and stood by me, over the years she has become more tolerant and knows I have other needs to be met in order to be happy. My wife and I don't have sex because women do not get the penis erect.
To start this is not a place to talk about morals or standards, we don't judge what people do here. This is strictly a risk assestment forum.
Second HIV is not a risk with oral sex as proven by several studies.
No, but you have a risk of other STD's from unprotected oral sex.