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Am i in danger?
hallo!
I am 36 years old and i have a relationship the last 6 months with someone i know from my past.
All of our csexual contacts so far were fully protected with condom, because in the past around 18 yeasrs old, with my first boyfriend i had an abortion and am extremely careful with those issues, as well am having intense phobias about diseases.
Almost a month ago we had unprotected anal sex without ejaculation for 3 minutes, then we proceeded with vaginal sex with condom.
I dont have any symptoms except extent heart beat, that i feel that am going to hurt my heart with so much stress.
I asked him if i can trust him and he ansewered that he doesnt have HIV or any other dangerous disease.
Please tell me am i in danger?
Lumia77
Dear sir,
am I a monogamous relationship (I am a female) over the past eight months with a man at 44 years old.
I know him for from my past, but now we are into a relationship.
He is pretty handsome and I know that he had manu relationships with women only.
He is a man in a very good physical condition and with a responsible profession.
We discussed of having sex without condom, we tried it once.he ejaculated out of my body.
I expressed him my phobiad about diseases anf he told me that he does not have Hiv or other sexually transmitted diseases.
We practised anal some days ago..when he ejaculated I stopped it, but I think that maybe some sperm stayed in..I washed after very carefully.
Anyway, though I trust him and we have a balanced relation and nice sexual moments, do u think that maybe am in danger?
Always in my life I had intense phobias about diseases and took me personal effort to enjoy my sexual life.
with this one I feel nice but always I have these annoying thoughts.
Thank you
am I a monogamous relationship (I am a female) over the past eight months with a man at 44 years old.
I know him for from my past, but now we are into a relationship.
He is pretty handsome and I know that he had manu relationships with women only.
He is a man in a very good physical condition and with a responsible profession.
We discussed of having sex without condom, we tried it once.he ejaculated out of my body.
I expressed him my phobiad about diseases anf he told me that he does not have Hiv or other sexually transmitted diseases.
We practised anal some days ago..when he ejaculated I stopped it, but I think that maybe some sperm stayed in..I washed after very carefully.
Anyway, though I trust him and we have a balanced relation and nice sexual moments, do u think that maybe am in danger?
Always in my life I had intense phobias about diseases and took me personal effort to enjoy my sexual life.
with this one I feel nice but always I have these annoying thoughts.
Thank you
Because I feel like that.
Like sex is a constant possibility of disease.
I know this is hysterical and I know that I can feel like that because it ruins my inner balance.
on the other side I dont want to get tested each time I have these thoughts because I feel that in this way I surrender to the phobic part and because I need a more stable solution over this anxiety.
thank you sir
Like sex is a constant possibility of disease.
I know this is hysterical and I know that I can feel like that because it ruins my inner balance.
on the other side I dont want to get tested each time I have these thoughts because I feel that in this way I surrender to the phobic part and because I need a more stable solution over this anxiety.
thank you sir
Unprotected anal sex IS a risk, although probably not a significant one, being that you're in a long term relationship. Do you guys test together periodically? That's always a good idea if you're going to be having any unprotected sex, vaginal or anal.
I wouldn't worry too much about it, a test at 3 months post exposure would be conclusive, you could also go and test with your BF to give you some peace of mind. Unless he's an IV drug abuser, or has sex with other men, he wouldn't be a high risk partner to begin with.
Now, to your phobias and irrational thoughts about sex and diseases....you need to seek out some professional help for that.
I wouldn't worry too much about it, a test at 3 months post exposure would be conclusive, you could also go and test with your BF to give you some peace of mind. Unless he's an IV drug abuser, or has sex with other men, he wouldn't be a high risk partner to begin with.
Now, to your phobias and irrational thoughts about sex and diseases....you need to seek out some professional help for that.
Thank you for your answer.
So, you think that until this 3 month period I should worry?
Because I have intense heart beating, and being so scared..
My boyfriend is straight and when I asked him about his status he answered he is negative.
meanwhile am thinking of seeking professional help about my phobias.
So, you think that until this 3 month period I should worry?
Because I have intense heart beating, and being so scared..
My boyfriend is straight and when I asked him about his status he answered he is negative.
meanwhile am thinking of seeking professional help about my phobias.
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