Sex with condom

[Dogonyc]

Hello there about 25 days ago I had sex with a guy, who I met that day. (I know that's very wrong) I was the bottom "I was being penetrated in my anus" we used a condom the entire time, but I gave him a BJ he did not *** in my mouth.  

I am still very worried about HIV, should I test not or at 6 months.

I appreciate your response.

[mike_no]

You didn't need a test. Oral sex is not a risk for HIV transmission.

Saliva contains proteins and low sodium content that inhibits the virus.

Also ingesting infected fluid is not an effective route for HIV transmission since there are gastric acids in the stomach that would inhibit the virus.

You were protected since you used a condom for anal intercourse there was no need for testing. You had no risk and therefore, you didn't have a window period to worry about.

You must seek help for your anxiety since you are bothered by irrational fear of contracting HIV, it is visible from your previous posts that you have a history of being scared after an episode of sex. You have been coming here and posting about similar issues since 2015. This doesn't seem to be normal, it is time where you must consider counseling as this behavior seems to be inclining more towards a psychological issue than HIV prevention concern.

This is an HIV prevention forum and you don't have a relevant concern. This is the best we could offer you from here. Please accept the insight extended towards you and move along.

[mike_no]

You used a condom and that kept you protected. Oral sex is not a risk. Testing won't be necessary.

[Dogonyc]

Thank you for your comment, I feel much better.

[Dogonyc]

I got a Oraquick test yesterday 30 days after my encounter - it was negative I feel much better now.

[AnxiousNoMore]

You are the only person who didn't understand that there was nothing to test for. You would be better off seeing your doc or a therapist to deal with this illogical fear, rather than continue to live in fear for no reason then doing a placebo test.

[AnxiousNoMore]

No need to be angry. Everyone told you that you had zero risk, and this wasn't the first thread you posted about oral which once again is zero risk, so consider your option of seeking help so you can enjoy life more.

[Boboy86]

"He pulled out before finishing" means u continue with unprotected sex??

[Dogonyc]

I meant to say he told me he did not ***, inside me when he was penetrating me, and while he was inside my anus, he always had a condom on.  

[Dogonyc]

No he did not penetrated me again after that.

[AnxiousNoMore]

You have a lot of threads about oral and condom sex and some of them you wonder if he took the condom off. You might want to see a therapist or see your doc for something to calm you down, instead of coming to forums afterward and asking the same questions as if you didn't already know the answer.

[Dogonyc]

I don't think it's the same question - and I am sorry to bother you, I was looking for some understanding and compassion, like everyone else who comes here we are worried and don't need to be talked down, if you not supportive just let it go, don't answer questions that are not for you to answer with your undermining response.

[AnxiousNoMore]

This is not an anxiety or obsessive issues forum. You have asked these questions before so consider seeing a therapist to help you understand that.

[Dogonyc]

Thanks for your advice.  I can see your logic starting with your user name.

[Boboy86]

No condom break or slip, u had zero risk.... no need for testing...

[Dogonyc]

He pulled out before finishing - and we continue with irwl sex I checked the condom and it was not broke or anything.