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Cambodian prostitute in dubai

Hii friends . Worried about an encounter two days back . Had condom protected vaginal intercourse twice in a night with a cambodian prostitute in dubai of unknown HIV status . As far as my knowledge I used the condom in away it covered my penis but I don't know whether that was the correct way to use condoms . I cannot see condom break with my naked eyes . Also open mouthed kissed her .  I have bleeding gums but am not sure whether it was bleeding that time or not . Did not tasted blood . Do I need testing or shall I forget this episode and move ahead in life . Please advise . Prostitute wa young and was new to Du bai . She does not have condoms also and I have to bring condoms from pharmacy outside the apartment . Plse advise on my risk
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This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. This HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk. Because of all the research statistics, doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
Condom only has to cover the head and if it fails it rips down the seam so both people would know if that happened - you are safe. Move on from hiv. It is risky to use a prostitute who does not have condoms in case yours breaks, so I would not do that in future because the reason  she might not have them could be because she is already infected and does not want to waste money buying them. Her age is irrelevant.
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Actually it was prostitute who told me to bring condom . Will that make a difference or u still think she was HIV positive
Actually it was prostitute who told me to bring condom . Will that make a difference or u still think she was HIV positive
Did your condom break?
No . I cannot see it breaking
In that case, there is no risk. It doesn't matter who got the condom and wherever you got it from. Condoms are made up of latex and latex as a material effectively protects against HIV.

Your fear is irrational. Please get over this and move on. If you are unable to do it, see a therapist.
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