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7892017 tn?1400211044

Cunnilingus with gum infection and teeth cavities

hi

I'm sorry my English isn't good.

I'm male 32 years from Indonesia. 6 weeks ago I had sex with female CSW whose HIV status was unknown. She said  did not always use condoms when having sex with her customers.
We have vaginal intercourse using condom, i see condom not broken.
The stupid thing I did was to do cunnilingus before and after vaginal intercourse. I also did fingering and there was a lot of vaginal fluid and I licked it.
After that I was very afraid of being infected with HIV, then 17 hours later I took Tenovovir diproxile fumarate 300 mg (only tenovovir) for 20 days. I know that PEP must be more than one type of medicine, but for PEP access in my city it is very difficult.
Im feel fatigue and itch in arm and foot till now.

My question :
1. I do Cunnilingus and lick vaginal fluid with teeth cavities and infection with molars gum which often bleed when squeezed. Is this at risk of being infected with HIV?

2. At the time of fingering, my fingers crack (old crack) because the skin is dry, not new wounds, is it at risk of contracting HIV?

3. What about tenofovir that I took for 20 days, was there any effect with my risk of being infected with HIV?

4. With this incident did I have to test for HIV?

I am very afraid of being infected with HIV, I have 2 children and  wife that I love so much.

many thanks
Somat
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This answers all your questions and if you think of any others, then you can get the answer if you just reread about the 3.
You had no risk for HIV so your pep was a waste of time. Even if you had a risk, it is not smart to take a medication for less days than recommended or take one when you need 2 - thankfully that is irrelevant since you had no risk, but keep it in mind next time. I wouldn't tell the wife because she will be hurt and there is no HIV disease for you or her to worry about. You can check the std forum for info on that though.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
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7892017 tn?1400211044
Hi AnxiousNoMore, tks for your response.
I have mouth meth in some cavities, does this have no effect?
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Reread about "no detail".
thanks for your quick response, I became more calm.
Once again to be sure, so I don't need to test HIV for my risk?
you've already asked that and have been answered. you do not need to test for something you do not have. you do not have HIV and were told how it is transmitted. do not do any of the 3 ways listed and you will never have anything to worry about. it's definitely not my business to give relationship advice as thats not what we are here for, and because I have also been in your situation, but you say you love your wife and kids, maybe do not put yourself in a situation where you have to worry about losing your wife from visiting a CSW. this will only add to your anxiety. I'm only stating that from my own personal experience, not judging.
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