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Am i Safe

hello Dr, i am  33 year old male , had only a fellatio without ejaculation with a transsexual (first time)on the 4th of april, i did a quick test on the third week after the exposure and on the six week , both came out negative today i start my nine week and suddenly i have a fever  101 F with cough for the second day without any other symptoms .
I am so worried, the fever drops down when using panadol or tylanol !!
PLease  i know that u have answered so many question similar , but i am so anxious i am not sleeping ....
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186166 tn?1385259382
There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex.  The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way.  Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk".  There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex.  Please educate yourself about the real risks.  If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. "   DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..."   DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?  
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
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186166 tn?1385259382
of course it was...DUH  :)
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thx all , thx lizzie my test is negative
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i appreciate ur time and explanation , didn't mean to bother ,just worried , i will post only my test result tomorrow .

thanks again
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186166 tn?1385259382
ANXIETY
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thx all, but today i am having problem with my breathing (chest) if for any reason all what was explained is doubtful (you know that when you are worried ) does early hiv symptoms affect the breathing system
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1266038 tn?1271099122
Hey George, i was in the same postion as you but not a transexual, i got tested at 8 weeks which came back negative, dnt worrie dude. it will be all ok. experts on here are good at their job mate. trust them ok.,
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thx a lot , for your support LIZZIE
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sure u are, pls explain lizzie and consider me the ignorant , it is better then being infected
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186166 tn?1385259382
sure?  yes
how?  cause i'm smart :)
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thx Lizzie for ur answer, but i cannot wait till monday to get tested again ?are u sure from ur info and how ?
thanks
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186166 tn?1385259382
ars symptoms come at 2-4 WEEKS post infection...NOT 9 weeks.  your fever is not hiv related.

to further that...YOU WERE NEVER AT RISK.  
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