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I moved to a new city about 4 months ago and my GF stayed in the Midwest. I got weak and caved and met a girl online and we talked for about a month then she came over 10 days ago and we had sex.
She swears she is 100 percent clean and showed me test results online but they were only for Chlamidia and Gon. I asked her about HIV and she said she asked for that test but its not on the readout and that her Dr. never called her so she is in the clear and so am I.
We had protected vaginal intercourse but for a little bit she rubbed my bare penis on her clitoris after the first session. Then we had more protected sex, vaginally. I'm freaked out now. I keep freaking about HIV. I used a spermacide condom and now I read they are not good to use at all. How much risk have I put my dumb self at?
The condom never broke/ripped but I didnt do a water test so that was stupid too.
She swears she is 100 percent clean and showed me test results online but they were only for Chlamidia and Gon. I asked her about HIV and she said she asked for that test but its not on the readout and that her Dr. never called her so she is in the clear and so am I.
We had protected vaginal intercourse but for a little bit she rubbed my bare penis on her clitoris after the first session. Then we had more protected sex, vaginally. I'm freaked out now. I keep freaking about HIV. I used a spermacide condom and now I read they are not good to use at all. How much risk have I put my dumb self at?
The condom never broke/ripped but I didnt do a water test so that was stupid too.
I guess I'm the type to really freak out. I know tons of people do one nighters and never worry but I'm not in that category I don't guess.
COMMUNITY LEADER
You were never had any risk of HIV because your penetration was protected. Surface rubbing does not become the route for transmission.
Never believe in words when it comes to serious matters like HIV. Many infected people aparently look healthy because they do not have any symptoms, but can transmit the disease.
Also even if somebody shows me his/her test report done only yesterday, it does not guarantee that he or she is clean because any exposure during past few weeks will not be covered in that test report.
Never believe in words when it comes to serious matters like HIV. Many infected people aparently look healthy because they do not have any symptoms, but can transmit the disease.
Also even if somebody shows me his/her test report done only yesterday, it does not guarantee that he or she is clean because any exposure during past few weeks will not be covered in that test report.
It could have been a case of dumb and dumber but you used your brain and wore a condom.Congrats.You're safe.There was no unprotected peneration.
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