Dear Dr.
My question is simple, but I can't wait to hear from a professional about it. This happened 48 hours ago
I went to a stripclub. I am 29, m, straight guy.
The girl was old around 45+. She gave me lap-dance. I was fully dressed (boxer+jean) during whole period while she was nude. While performing lap-dance over me, I liked/sucked her nipples, I did not feel any fluid/milk/anything else coming from it, but not 100% sure because at that time I was not very aware.
There was no sexual intercourse. Later I was nude and the girl was nude too our genitals touched may 5- 10 sec (on her anus and vagina) 3 to 5 times
I was very much concerned about std, however, now after searching the forums I am scared. My knowledge was hiv transmit from (1) unprotected sex (2) sharing needles/drugs (3) mother to child.
Questions:
1- Is sucking a woman 's nipple by a man and if some fluid was sucked will HIV transmit?
2- Should I test, If I suck (no to very little fluid, as far as I remembered) for very small interactions (4-5 times consisting of 5-15 sec) for any std/hiv? (the nipples seems to be al-right, but again not 100% sure)
3- My penis touched and rubbed her thighs, her vigina and her anus for very small interaction (unprotected) (4-5 times consisting of 5-10 secs) (no intercourse) Is it possible HIV could transmit and should I test? (not ware if there as any fluid on her vigina or anus but I am assuming I had percum) (I believe she had some fluid on her vagina)
4- The girl, seems to serving multiple customer before she came to me. I do not know her HIV status.
I need confirmation from you pls
1- To be safe do I start PEP?
2- Should I test for hiv/std?
3- Am I too concerned for some this that not an issue?