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Encounter with hiv+ woman

Hello, I know the question about oral sex has been asked here before many times in this forum. But I really want reassurance about my specific encounter. I’m a male, three weeks ago I received an unprotected blowjob from a hiv+ woman (I knew it after the encounter). I also had protected vaginal intercourse with her (condom didn’t break as far as I know). A brief open mouth kiss. And she tried scratching me with her nails couple of times especially in my back but I stopped her (she may have made a small scratch). My question is, when she was giving me a blowjob, she drank something (looked like water and she told me it was water) but I found it weird that she did that during the blowjob and she spilled almost all of it on my penis from her mouth. I know it may be just my anxiety, but in case it is not water, is there any liquid that can ease the transmission of hiv or maybe even that hiv was contained in that liquid? Can you please inform me about the risk and if I need to get tested. I’m very worried about it. I really appreciate your assistance and guidance.
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The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.

You cannot get HIV from a blowjob, regardless of the circumstances. You can't get HIV from liquid spilled on your penis, regardless of the circumstances.

If you do not engage in any of the activities I mentioned above with someone HIV+ or whose HIV status is unknown to you, you will NEVER have to worry about getting HIV. There is no information you could add about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
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