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Encounters with Massage parlour attendants

Hey how's it going guys. I thought I would post here to see if I am at risk for HIV. Over the past year I have (stupidly) gone to the same rub and tug about 5 or 6 times. I had one instance where I performed unprotected sex on one of the girls but 3 months later I was cleared of any possible STD's, including HIV. about 2 months ago is what I'm worried about when one of them performed unprotected oral sex on me. She spit on my penis and everything. Just wondering if that increases risk, even though I know it's very minimal. Also is it risky to have sex with so many high risk people even if it's protected? Does improper condom use (not squeezing the air out of tip) pose a higher risk even if the condom doesnt break?

The reason I'm asking is because im developing a flu which is odd because its summer here. I have a sore throat, stuffed up sinus's and my stomach is hurting along with diahrrea.

Thanks in advance, your help is much appreciated
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err .. sorry? Just asking for a little more info because I cant find the answer to that anywhere on the site. I guess i should have known better :s? anyways thanks a lot for your help though! take care
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ok good to know, but if there is trace amounts of blood in the saliva or anything of that sort and the person is infected, what is the risk of contracting it in that scenario?
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186166 tn?1385259382
no one has ever contracted hiv from receiving oral sex...and that is in the whole pandemic of hiv ! ! !
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Ok thanks! one more quick question for the future; If a girl has sores or cuts in her mouth, how risky is it to recieve felatio protected/unprotected and is it always beneficial to wear a condom when recieveing? Thanks!
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186166 tn?1385259382
NO NEED TO REPEAT OURSELVES
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Thanks Liz, so no need for further testing or anymore worry?
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186166 tn?1385259382
cant be ars rash
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Sorry, another question guys... I got a rash around my lower stomach area and chest area about 2 weeks after the unprotected oral incident. The Rash consisted of many tiny small red bumps but wasnt a severe rash, just a few red bumps here and there. I noticed them while I was camping with some buddies. Is it possible it could just be bug bites of some sort, because it sounds really similar to ARS rash. Thanks
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Thanks a lot my friends. quick responses and info were greatly appreciated. I'm rather sure i wont be visiting one of these places again
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"I had one instance where I performed unprotected sex on one of the girls but 3 months later I was cleared of any possible STD's, including HIV."

That was your only risk, and you are correct you are conclusively negative.

"about 2 months ago is what I'm worried about when one of them performed unprotected oral sex on me. She spit on my penis and everything. Just wondering if that increases risk, even though I know it's very minimal."

You were not at risk from oral sex- saliva is not infectious as far as HIV is concerned.

"Also is it risky to have sex with so many high risk people even if it's protected? Does improper condom use (not squeezing the air out of tip) pose a higher risk even if the condom doesnt break?"

All you need to do is use condoms consistently and correctly. As long as the condom stays intact, you are at no risk. But you are correct, not squeezing the air out of the tip put you are higher risk for breakage.

Bottom line: you are not at risk for HIV and do not need further testing.
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You were never at risk.
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