HIV Infection concern

[iphone4s]

Hi All - me and my boyfriend and a little adventure more than 10 days ago with unknown man. He mentioned he had nothing and got tested for everything. However, my boyfriend now is having symptoma of gonorrhea disease. He has the feeling of urge for urination and white discharge. We did non protected oral sex with the unknown guy. However, we has anal sex and he put a condom on. The unknown guy came inside me with a condom on. My boyfriend came inside me without a condom after him. I am very concerned that the guy may have HIV and he already infected both of us. Please advise if this is a HIV transmission possibility. Through unprotected oral and protected anal sex. Thank you.

[AnxiousNoMore]

HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from oral. It doesn't matter if you and they were bleeding at the time either because it is effectively dead. Neither of you has any risk for HIV so don't need to test.

Only adult risks are unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal sex or sharing needles that you inject with.
Even with blood, lactation cuts, rashes, burns etc saliva and air do not allow inactivated virus to infect from oral . The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so nothing you can add will make it a risk.

The best advice on std is the MedHelp std forum and condom doesn't protect against all std.

[AnxiousNoMore]

You have a lot of HIV posts over the years, so likely knew all the relevant information before.