Oral HIV Risk - Little or no Pre-*** ?

[Jonw85]

All, looking for help here. I had an encounter where I gave a man oral sex, the encounter only last a few minutes, no ejaculation. He said after he didn't even think pre-cum came out. He said he was negative for HIV but now I feel off about 3 weeks later (no fever, no rash, no diahrrea, vomiting, etc though) just off or tired. It might be anxiety.

I asked him to be sure he didn't have anything so he went to the doctor a week after and showed me his negative tests.

Given the low risk, barely to no fluids, negative test a week after, and no fever/rash, is it just anxiety driving my symptoms?

[Jonw85]

You really think no risk? I've had a dry cough, sore throat, aches, etc. I know it's not about the symptoms but I hope there is no risk. Even though he tested negative , it was only one week later...

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

As you were advised, you had no risk for HIV, so the symptoms you are experiencing are not related to HIV.

There isn't anything for our members to add regarding your no-risk scenario.

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[CurfewX]

You didn't have a risk.  Your symptoms are almost certainly anxiety-related.  Being tired, alone, would not be a symptom of HIV.

[Jonw85]

Thank you. I have had a sore throat as well, or did, but it might have been dry mouth related. I thought I had thrush too but I was told it was not by a nurse friend. I've done oraquick test at 3 weeks and 4 weeks. I want to believe it is all anxiety but my body just did not feel well. I never had a fever or rash but i just hope it is anxiety. Thank you for your feedback, can't tell you how much it is appreciated to hear from someone on this.

[Scaredteen12345678910]

According to all the online doctors, fever rash and sore throat usually happen if any symptom happens plus he gave you proof that he was clean. You can't get hiv if no one had it to begin so I think you're fine :) it's just nerves .

[Jonw85]

Thank you. I know and I was glad he was willing to do that... certainly not required. I just felt so unwell. I hope it's just anxiety.

[Scaredteen12345678910]

It waa really good he willing to try to calm your anxiety. Not many people are like that. If you're still worried, test for it and then you can throw an " I know I as negative but now its confirmed " party. Trust I was having so much anxiety symptoms for a result I already knew was going to be negative

[Jonw85]

Right. I did an Oraquick test at 4 weeks which is early but negative. I plan to do another at 7 and 12 weeks but it is hard to get there.