Oral sex is not a way that people get HIV. Not a single person in the history of HIV has gotten it from oral sex. Not a single proven, documented case. Theoretical risk is not the same as true risk and many don't understand that. Experts all agree that the real risk of oral sex just isn't there. AND, you tested negative at 90 days. You should see a doctor for your symptoms but they are not HIV related.
You're results were conclusive after 90 days. Saliva negates the virus . Hiv is contracted by having unprotected anal or vaginal sex , or I.V. Drug use. It's best to move on now based on your experience and test results.