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Frottage, sex with condom and UTI
Hi kindly assist access my hiv exposures risk.
Vaginal Sex with condom and Did not break , frottage put my penis between her butt chicks which was wet. And oral sex with condom few days later I was diagnosed very bad UTI. I'm panic mode right of hiv transmission. I'm newly wed and my wife is 1 month pregnant I fear for her please help
Vaginal Sex with condom and Did not break , frottage put my penis between her butt chicks which was wet. And oral sex with condom few days later I was diagnosed very bad UTI. I'm panic mode right of hiv transmission. I'm newly wed and my wife is 1 month pregnant I fear for her please help
Thanks for your responses. Is it safe to stop worrying and move on with my life .I will surely take your advice
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The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected (no condom) penetrative anal or vaginal sex, OR
2) Sharing IV drug equipment with other IV drug users.
You didn't have a risk for HIV, but you may have had a risk for STDs or Herpes - you can ask in the STDs forum: https://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs-STIs/show/98
If you intend to have sex with your pregnant wife, you should refrain from sexual activity with other people as STDs could be risky.
1) Having unprotected (no condom) penetrative anal or vaginal sex, OR
2) Sharing IV drug equipment with other IV drug users.
You didn't have a risk for HIV, but you may have had a risk for STDs or Herpes - you can ask in the STDs forum: https://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs-STIs/show/98
If you intend to have sex with your pregnant wife, you should refrain from sexual activity with other people as STDs could be risky.
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (mouth, body, fluids, maybe blood, cuts, bleeding gums, etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
You can't get hiv when you use a condom and if it failed it would rip wide open so that didn't happen. Move on from hiv fears, and stop thinking about lymph.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
You can't get hiv when you use a condom and if it failed it would rip wide open so that didn't happen. Move on from hiv fears, and stop thinking about lymph.
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Sorry to bother again
My wife has a rash covered all over her face and this occured 6 weeks after her first exposure and she s having it almost 2 weeks now, I'm so paranoid if this is ARs rash . Does hiv rash dissapear and rearpear again
My wife has a rash covered all over her face and this occured 6 weeks after her first exposure and she s having it almost 2 weeks now, I'm so paranoid if this is ARs rash . Does hiv rash dissapear and rearpear again
Since you didn't answer the QUESTION, I'll do it for you. Answer> No, there wasn't a penis in my anus during the frottage and she didn't inject me with a shared needle so I should move on instead of wasting any more time with purposeless questions.
Well noted. Thank you and good day
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