Breast Milk and condom burst !!!

[Ankshlt]

Few hour back a had intercourse with a call girl who was a mother of 8 month old child and lactating !!!
During intercourse I always used two condoms . When I came I remove and complete on her stomach .
But when I came back I found one condom burst I don’t know which one upper one or lower one and because of this I checked second one which water and found a hole in it . As I carry them in jeans where a sharp medicine wrapper was also there .
During intercourse I may had her milk in my mouth and also when I pressed them there might be small droplets into my eye.
I didn’t knew her status of hiv!!
Worried please help

[GuitarRox]

The risks for HIV are having unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse and sharing IV drug needles. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. As an adult, you will not get HIV from breast milk. From your description, it sounds like overall, your penis WAS covered. A hole like a pin hole will not allow transmission and that's a pretty rare occurrence as condoms break wide open. You also had the other condom on. In general, only use one condom.

[Ankshlt]

I mentioned that a sharp tablet strip was there in my jeans where I kept used condom . That might be the reason of that hole . But in the end I should move on I guess

[AnxiousNoMore]

Yes, and don't use 2 together again.

[Ankshlt]

Yes for the hole scenario or for move on

[GuitarRox]

Yes, this is not a risk.  Our anxiety and worry and whatnot can make us think of all sorts of reasons why we need to worry. Try to relax.

[Ankshlt]

Ok !!! Thank you and can you please delete this post so that I can’t read it again and again . Please

[AnxiousNoMore]

Milk can't give you hiv so definitely nothing to worry about from that.

[Ankshlt]

Dear Team ,
I dont have any other symptoms but i feel a tinder and red lum behind my ear bone . Is that lymph node swelled  ???
Does only one lymph node swelled in HIV symptoms ???
Worried till yesterday please help !!!
Should i go for testing ???
Please stop my worries ???

[CurfewX]

We can't stop your worries.  We are not an anxiety support group.  Test at the appropriate time to know your status for sure, if you are concerned.

[Ankshlt]

Dear CurfeX ,
I recently lost my father and the time is not good for me !!!
I commented two times and both the time my comment got deleted . I knew that wvwryone answered my questoon and if it is not a risk than testion os also not needed but because of this worst period of time that is going in my life i became negative so please last tume help me !!! Please !!!!

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

Our members have advised you about your HIV risk.  It is up to you whether you decide to test or not, but our members are only able to answer medical questions about HIV risk and testing.  They are not able to offer support for anxiety.

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[AnxiousNoMore]

SHe's probably negative because she only uses condoms to protect herself. You can test with a duo after 4 weeks or any other after 12. I wouldn't worry while waiting for the test since I'm guessing she is negative.

[Ankshlt]

But I use two condoms and one is properly I text apart from a hole in it that too on the upper side not at the head

[AnxiousNoMore]

I'm not sure why you asked if you had hiv if one condom did not fail. I thought you switched condoms when I read your first post. You run the risk of damaging a condom when you use 2 due to friction so that is why 1 got the hole. It is time to move on from hiv fears and do not waste any more time testing.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Don't use 2 again at the same time.

[Ankshlt]

Ok , I also men ion d that a sharp tablet cut strip was there in my tight jean socket where I kept used condoms . I guess the hole is because of that