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Hi. I would like to ask your advice. I have been going through a very difficult time recently and been making a few bad decisions.
I went to 2 transsexual escorts. One of them tried to penetrate me, using a condom, but it hurt so he pulled out immediately.
I performed oral on both of them and they both ejaculated in my mouth and i swallowed. I had a sore throat at the time of doing this. I know oral sex is low risk, but would having a sore throat increase the risk?
Thank you for your help.
I went to 2 transsexual escorts. One of them tried to penetrate me, using a condom, but it hurt so he pulled out immediately.
I performed oral on both of them and they both ejaculated in my mouth and i swallowed. I had a sore throat at the time of doing this. I know oral sex is low risk, but would having a sore throat increase the risk?
Thank you for your help.
Oral sex is not low risk with regards to HIV, it is no risk. No one has ever been documented or proven to have gotten HIV from having had oral sex. The only risks for HIV transmission are unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles. So, you did not have a risk from what you describe.
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (penis, their fluids etc. which is not a risk for hiv.) No worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe. You can't get hiv when you use a condom.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. You are mistaken about oral - oral is not low risk it is zero risk so you should move on.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe. You can't get hiv when you use a condom.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. You are mistaken about oral - oral is not low risk it is zero risk so you should move on.
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So you didn't make any bad hiv decisions with the escorts.
Thank you very much for your prompt response. I appreciate the valuable service that you provide.
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