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Hi, I had sex with an escort last year and used condom while having intercourse but just after few minutes Into act I got scared and removed the condom and stopped having intercourse, but after a minute I wore the same condom and she has given me a hand job. My question is if I wore the condom inside out and if vaginal fluid came in contact with my penis head am I at risk.
I have undergone 4th generation test at 23 days mark and it was negative and also undergone a normal hiv test at 6 months and it came non-reactive.
But days back I have developed puss pockets on my right tonsills with swelling . Is it a symptom of HIV.. please help.
I have undergone 4th generation test at 23 days mark and it was negative and also undergone a normal hiv test at 6 months and it came non-reactive.
But days back I have developed puss pockets on my right tonsills with swelling . Is it a symptom of HIV.. please help.
This happened last year? Did you ask us about it then? I'm guessing you have another account here?
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No this is my only account, please help
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (maybe blood, maybe cuts, vaginal fluid on one side of condom that ended up on the other side when you put it back on, etc. ) . You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
See your doctor is you have a throat infection, because your diagnosis of hiv is incorrect.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
See your doctor is you have a throat infection, because your diagnosis of hiv is incorrect.
So is my tonsils swelling and infection is not related to HIV, and can I take my test results as conclusive.
Any test you took at any time is conclusive since you never had a risk for HIV. Move on from this event.
Since you didn't answer the QUESTION above here's the answer> No, there wasn't a penis in my anus and she didn't inject me during the sex so I had no risk and should move on instead of copying the advice and putting a question mark on it.
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