28 days ago I made a terrible mistake and saw a Sex worker. I had unprotected oral sex (on me) and protected vaginal sex. Since then, I have had plenty of symptoms. I am worried that the condom could have broken...it looked ok when I finished but I only glanced at it. I am worried in case of small tears or rips that might not be noticed at a glance.
Since day 5 or so I have been feeling a general malaise...most days I feel 'spaced out', slight dizziness, and generally not well.
Since day 10 I have been having headaches every day until now (2 weeks later)...these headaches come and go and are of the mild/moderate nature, lasting up to a few hours a day. They are non-throbbing and are usually located between my eyebrows...it sort of feels like a 'tightness' of my brows as if I massage the area of the pain subsides for a few seconds before feeling tight again.
On day 11, 12, 22 and 24 I woke up at night covered in sweat (mainly my chest). These were not 'bed drenching' sweats but were definitely not 'normal' to experience.
On day 15 I developed a mild sore throat which has lasted 2 weeks until now and still present. The throat is not 'sore' as such...it is more a dry, rough feeling where I need to clear my throat. What is worrying though is that there is no mucus, blocked nose etc associated with this throat irritation.
In recent days I have been suffering a very dry mouth...my saliva is very dry no matter how much water I drink etc.
Also I might have swollen lymph nodes on either side of my neck...they are not obviously swollen but when I feel around it feels like either side of my neck just under jaw might have slightly inflamed nodes - this feeling appeared on day 24 or so
Symptoms I do not have: fever (I have been checking my temp regularly), rash, muscle aches, loss of appetite etc
My questions are:
1: What was my initial risk? I know protected vaginal sex is low risk but is there any way I could have missed condom breaking?
2. What do you make of my symptoms? Part of me thinks my headaches are associated with stress as they are mild and come and go but then again...its been 2.5 weeks with headaches. But I cannot explain, mild sore/irritated throat for 2 weeks now, potentially swollen lymph nodes in neck....these 'symptoms' seem to have arisen at the perfect window for typical ARS period.
3. Do I need to get tested?